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Sexuality set by God
Sexual life accordingly will of God is between husband and wife
Mankind, who lives little
before the second coming of Jesus Christ is according to Jesus, adulterer
generation. Jesus also spoke, that this generation accepts sin of Sodom and
Gomorrah, which is homosexuality. Each person accepts something and functions
according to how he/she accepts. Purpose of this writing is not forcing
anybody to do anything or think like I do. Purpose of this writing is bringing
forth teaching of the Bible from the sexuality of the man. God has Himself
created the man and set sexuality between men and women. Sexuality set by God
is meant to practise betweenman and woman, on perpetual and lifetime
relationship husband and wife, in which they accept to love one another and
live together as husband and wife, until the death splits up them. Only place
to practise sex is permanent and lifetime lasting relationship between a
husband and wife, which is marriage.
Sin, which affect in the heart of the men, is successfully broken healthy
sexuality and healthy sex life, which God has purposed between husband and
wife in lifelong marriage. In the Bible God, Himself teaches about
homosexuality like this way "Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with
womankind: it is an abomination. " In the text appears word abomination, what
is in hebr. towebah, which means; disgusting thing, an abomination and unclean
act or matter. Lord God has regulated to His word that man would not practise
sex with other men, because it is against the order of creation.Don’t man lie with other man
"Or do you not know that unjust ones will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do
not be led astray, neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor
abusers, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous ones, nor drunkards, nor
revilers, nor plunderers shall inherit the kingdom of God. And some were these
things, but you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified
in the name of the Lord Jesus, and in the Spirit of our God." 1 Cor 6:9-11
Jay.P.Green literal translation
In
the letter of Corinthians appear Greek word arsenokoites, which means;
one who lies with a male as with a female, sodomite and homosexual. Word of
God teaches clearly, that homosexuality is a sin.
Homosexuality and lesbianism are
sins
" For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their
women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: And
likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their
lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and
receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet. And
even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over
to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient; "
Romans 1:26-28
From
letter of Romans we see plainly, that homosexuality and lesbianism are sins.
Sex which happens in marriage between a husband and wife, is natural sex and
such kind of sex what God has meant. Homosexuality and lesbianism are
according to teaching of the Bible abnormal sex and sins.
Homosexuality and lesbianism are not illnesses and not in the genes of man,
although some people try to assure that homosexuality and lesbianism are in
genes. But as we can see from the Bible, God Himself says that they are
sinning, and not in genes of the people. Sin constantly distorts will of God
and has also distorted hearts of the people about sexuality, who practise
homosexuality and lesbianism and sin has misled mind of those people who are
defending this sin. Lust, which sin, controls brings further to the hearts of
some people sexuality desire towards his/her own gender. Homosexuality and
lesbianism are sinning, from which God calls people to repent. The sin spoils
and kills characters repeatedly, even though if you get enjoyment from making
the sin, so however it eventually destroys you. Healthy ordinances and rules
have been put to guard people and not causing damage to the people. Think
about even though traffic regulations, if they were taken out of use, so then
would take place many injuring, and deadly traffic crashes would take place,
and many different kinds of traffic accidents would increase. Traffic laws are
for us ease and protection. Same it is also with teachings of the Bible.
Teachings of the Bible are not as purpose teases and not spoil people, but its
intention is to save human life and be as help to the people.
Renounced church leaders are against teaching of the Bible
Here in Finland where I live, Lutheran church
and many of its bishops believes a same way as bishop Wille Riekkinen has said:
"I hope, that homosexuals and lesbians could share to work of the church as
member, workers and also as decision-makers. " Bishop Juha Pihkala has
said: "For me would be better, if homosexuals and lesbians would practise
their homosexual tendency in permanent relationship. " Teaching and
opinion of the bishops are badly in conflict with teaching of the Bible.
The divorce is not
the will of God
Jesus Christ said also about increasing of the
divorces before His second coming. Why people are divorcing? Surely, for many
reasons. My goal is not making anybody guilty of anything. Divorce is bad
thing and not the will of God. If your marriage partner cheats you and leaves
you, so he/she is doing sin against you and the God.
The marriage is holy in the eyes of God and divorce is not the will of God.
Current societies live in very rush rhythm, in which issues take place
enormous fast. This sort of urgency society makes impatient people, who don't
have ability to patient lifestyle, and that patient in relationship of
marriage is wanted enormous much. The self interest is also often as the
reason of divorce. Spouse doesn’t take consideration to his/her partner, but
all activities in marriage is based to selfishness. Furthermore, then cheating
of spouse can cause also divorce. This betrayal is bad sin against God and
spouse. Somebody can make force activity towards his/her spouse, which is also
bad sin. Spouse can also abuse his/her daughter/son, which is terrible sin.
And there can be many more reasons for divorce. Marriage should be the union,
where spouses can love and trust one another. Marriage is not an impulsive
idea, which last only short time, and then you choose to abandon your spouse.
Marriage is the fact, which last whole lifetime.
Healthy sexual life
God generously gave to man and woman sexual
desire with one another and this desire leads in marriage to healthy sex, in
which both receive attention another and satisfy one another. Lust is selfish,
which wants only for himself satisfaction, but don't give it to another. Often
especially men in their lusts fulfill only their personal needs and their
wives remain in this selfish sex without satisfaction. Lust so breaks sexual
life and could break relationship of spouses, but healthy sexual desire gives
to both sexual satisfactions. One reason to escapades is selfish lusts of
spouse, which pushes other to peer if on the half of neighbour fence would be
greener grass. Man and woman have to take in their marriage attention to one
another and after that sexuality work out well like God meant it, in which
both husband and wife get sexual satisfaction.
Selfish sexuality is such, where is enjoyment only for himself/herself, which
as a consequence spouse remains without physical affection and love. Like that
way then this side in marriage is destroyed, which can bring about, that a
person goes and take sexual needs and satisfactions somewhere else. Healthy
sexuality notices always first another need and only after that personal needs.
Both spouses must be as giving parties and not in a role of a taker. Sexuality
is a partnership, which as purpose is, that both spouses sexuality needs comes
to be satisfied. Mark of mature sexual life is a desire and skill to take into
consideration his/her spouses needs. If you or your spouse functions on this
sexuality area selfishly, so troubles shaped then really large, in worst cases
to divorce. The Bible teaches, that when you give then you get. This teaching
suits also in the sexuality of marriage; When you give and take attention
needs of your spouses and if he/she does the same for you both are happy.
Prostitution is the
sin
Prostitution is also one of problems of this
time. Often such people search and use prostitute, who are incapable to
healthy sexuality in permanent relationship of marriage. These types of people
require to get satisfaction only for themselves, and they don't take
consideration needs of their spouse, and they don’t have capacity to fine
sexual life, but are very selfish. Prostitution is also sin according to the
word of God, prostitution is a matter, from which must repent.
All kind of sex
without marriage is the sin
Command, which is in tenth command: " Thou shalt not commit adultery." That
means adultery and all types of immorality and fornication. This word is in
hebr. naaph. Extramarital sex is also sin. The Bible uses a word naaph also
from serving of idols. Hereby word naaph means in addition everything. What is
against the commands of God.
The sex before permanent relationship of marriage is also immorality and sin,
from which must also repent. All kinds of sex are sins, which doesn't happen
in marriage between husband and wife. The Bible teaches; but because of
fornication, let each have his own wife, and let each have her own husband.
Sexuality set by God belongs to marriage. The Bible teaches, that in the best
way person enjoys in his/her lifetime and is happy, when she/he is doing will
of God. The will of God is open to all people. God has given to man a
guidebook (Bible), in which is taught how people can reach good and safe life
in this world. I recommend to you this handbook, which guarantee to you
healthy and happy life.
Petri Paavola
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