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Sexual abuse of children - pedophilia
Pedophilia is horrific action and crime
against the children. On this writing, I bring forth motives and causes why some people commit
pedophilic acts. I handle problematic material and information on the
things that had not been always openly told because the people who
have told problems of pedophilia have feared accusations that they are
intolerant persons.
Contents:
Religiousness and sensuality
Usually religious communities have very high moral teachings about
sexuality. Among some (not all) religious communities are individuals
who molest children by different sexual activities. Those individuals
practice pedophilia, because they haven't the relationship with the real
God. Religious pedophile is a slave of his perverted sexual lusts.
Pedophilia in the Roman Catholic Church
Some (not all) priests of the Roman Catholic Church practice
pedophilia. What are reasons for wide practicing of pedophilia in the
Roman Catholic Church? Mainly, because they are not the real disciple of
the Lord Jesus, and therefore, they have not power to resist pervert sin
of pedophilia. Of course, there are also other reasons that I handle
next.
The Roman Catholic Church has the doctrine that clergy can't marry with
a woman. The Roman Catholic Church teaches its priests very negatively
about women, only Mary is valued among priests. Priests have promised to
keep celibacy and not touch the women by sexually. For these reason
priests of the Roman Catholic Church mainly molest and sexually abuse
boys. Because the Roman Catholic Church teaches to its priests
negatively about women, therefore, they mainly practice pedophilia
toward boys.
The celibacy is a very sure reason that perverts the sexuality of
priests. When a priest can't practice a health sex life with a woman
inside the marriage, it perverts his sexuality and can appear as a
pedophilic act lusting sexually boys. When a priest can't marry and
practice sex with an adult woman, so his mind becomes distorted, and he
begins to carry out perverted sex act toward boys. Inside the Roman
Catholic Church, pedophilia is spread to very wide and exposes that RCC
is religious institution and organization that don't represent Biblical
faith in the Lord Jesus.
Religious communities and pedophilia
Inside of some religious communities and groups' pedophilia is the wide
problem. Main reason for it is that individuals within those communities
are not born-again believers, but carnal and religious individuals.
Many of those religious communities teaches high moral education, but
they lack the power of God (the Holy Spirit). Individual who has no
power of the Holy Spirit in his heart has no ability to resist lusts of
his heart. In some case despite high moral sexual education individual
choose pervert sex behaviour, because he has no power to live according
to normal sex behaviour.
Religious movements which teach narrow-minded distorting beautiful
sexuality between man and woman in the marriage can cause pervert sex
behaviour. If religious movement teaches about sexuality all the time
negatively focusing sex sins, so it can cause pervert sex behaviour.
It is right to tell about sex sins, but health Biblical faith tells that
sex is the beautiful gift of God, and the right place practicing of sex
is in the marriage, in other words, in permanent relationship between
man and woman. Mere focusing of negative things about sexuality can lead
some individuals to practice pervert sexuality. Focusing of the right
and Biblical sexuality lead individuals to carry out health and right
sexuality.
Religious movements that teach that women are not equal with men, but
worse as men very often can lead to pervert sexual behaviour (pedophilia
and sexual abuse or rape of women). Distorted position of women can
lead sexualizing women as sex objects. When women haven't the right
value, but are only sex objects of men, so it can lead in some cases
perversion in which a man sexually abuses a little helpless girl. Very
often in such religious sects that declares to be the only one who have
the truth appears sexual abuse and pedophilia.
In the communities and churches where don't appear pedophilia and sexual
abuse the position of a woman is Biblical, which means that a man and
woman are equal before God.
The real faith don't practice pedophilia
The real and right Biblical believing in the Lord Jesus don't practice
pedophilia, because it is disgusting and abominable sin of fornication.
It is very unfortunately that many people think that religious
communities pedophilia sins are made by the real believers in God.
Biblical faith and pedophilia have absolutely nothing common.
The Biblical faith never practice pedophilia, because it is abominable
sin before God. Religiousness and believing in the Lord Jesus are
totally two different things. Religiousness speaks about the Bible, but
distorts the message and teaching of the Bible. Distinctive mark of
religiousness is that religious person doesn't live according to the
teaching of the Bible. Some godless people believe that pedophilia of
Roman Catholic Church are acts of Bible believing people, although in
the question is acts of religious people sex sins, not the acts of the
real Jesus' disciples. 1 Cor
6: In the
end of 1 Cor 6:9
Greek text appears two words
(malakos and arsenokoites).
Malakos means soft, effeminate, of a catamite, of a
boy kept for homosexual relations with a man, of a male who submits his
body to unnatural lewdness, of a male prostitute.
Arsenokoites
means one who lies with a male as with a female, sodomite, homosexual. In the
end of 1 Cor 6:9 is very clear teaching that sex between adult and child
is a sin. The verse teaches that sex between man, and boy is a sin, but
self-evident is that sex between man and girl is a sin. The Bible
condemns pedophilia as a sin that people who practice it cannot inherit
the kingdom of God, unless they repent and forsake sin of pedophilia. It is
very clear and obvious that the real Jesus' disciple can't practice sin
of pedophilia. In the Biblical faith and congregation don't appear
sin of pedophilia. When some individual practice pedophilia, so
into question is individual who lives totally against the will of God.
The Bible teaches that practitioner of pedophilia can't inherit the
kingdom of God. It is obvious that the real Jesus' disciples have
nothing to do with pedophilia.
Pedophile manipulates and controls a child
In the heart of pedophile sexuality has badly distorted, and he can't
accomplish health sexuality, therefore he tries to hide his sexual
perversion from other people. Therefore, he chooses a child as his
sexual object. Pedophile thinks that he can control a child and carry
out his sexual activity with a child. Pedophile can be very nice to
children in first contacts, but later they can frighten and threaten
that they make some bad things to child, parents of child or other
relatives of child. Pedophile can also use bribery, in which pedophile
bribes a child with money or some goods.
Pedophiles have different motives for practicing pedophilia. Some
pedophiles think in their sick and pervert mind that they bring sexual
satisfaction to children. Many pedophiles have told that previous
motive is the reason why they practice pedophilia. This kind of motive
is perverted and distorted, which lead to criminal activity, for
pedophilia is a disgusting crime.
In the mind of pleasure loving pedophile is the pervert bias, in which
he thinks that when he gets satisfaction, so also a child gets.
Pedophile in his distorted mind doesn't understand that his sexual
satisfaction to a child is painful, agonizing and horrendous experiences
for a child.
Some pedophiles think that their sexuality is normal. Usually this
kind of pedophile thinks that he gives a love to a child, and pedophile
thinks that it is normal behaviour. The mind of this kind of pedophile
is badly sick and distorted. This kind of pedophile can be also very
dangerous, because if a child rejects pedophile's "love indication," so
pedophile can kill a child. A man who lives under so strong perversion
can give in a moment "love", but when he faces rejection, he can commit
a homicide. Facing rejection can cause very negative reaction. When is
into question an individual whose mind is perverted and sick, so
negative reaction can be deadly to a child.
There exist also pedophiles who want to hurt children and is some cases
to kill their victims. Pedophilia is a serious crime, which can lead
violent sexual abuse or homicide.
Pedophiles have some common factors, which are that action is tried to
make in secret. Manipulation of victim, threat and frighten are methods
by which pedophile tries to hide his perversion. Pedophile works in
secret and tries to control his victim by manipulation and threats. For
this reason, many children dare not speak and expose pedophile who
sexually abused them. Many children expose a pedophile until they have
grown up for adults.
Parents who have little children should have had courage to speak their
children and say that there exist pedophiles who want sexually abuse
little children. Many parents don't want to speak their children,
because they think that children are afraid and have mistrust and lack
of confidence towards adults. If the things are presented in a wrong way,
so children can become anguished and undergo emotions of insecurity.
When you tell your children in a right way about pedophilia, so he
doesn't get traumas, and he learns to recognize dangerous situations,
and he avoids becoming a victim of a pedophile.
Parents should tell their children that all adults are not pedophiles,
but some are. Children don't need to avoid contacts with adults, because
for children must tell how pedophiles behave. Very often a pedophile aim
to behave like a very nice and as the trustful adults whom he could win
and awakening the confidence of children. When a pedophile has won a
child's trust and confidence, so then he begins molesting that children
don't even understand at the beginning. In some cases, a pedophile tries
to win the confidence of parents that he could get to touch to children.
When a pedophile has won a child's confidence, so he usually begins to
touch intimate areas or ask that a child would touch intimate areas of
pedophile. Pedophile also wants to tell a secret that a child cannot
expose anyone. In this way, a pedophile tries to hide his perversion. A
pedophile can also threaten that he shall do some evil and bad thing for
parents, relatives or child's pet.
Pedophile can also manipulate, persuade and seduce a child to have sex
with a pedophile. In this kind of case pedophile very often pay
attention to a child, for example, he can buy something that is very
remarkable for a child. When a pedophile has won the trust of a child,
so pedophile seduce him to have sex with him. In this kind of case very
often a child doesn't understand that a pedophile is manipulating and
make sex crime abusing sexually a child. Also for this reason is very
important to tell a child that what pedophilia is. Seducing of a child
having a sex is a pedophilia punishable crime.
If parents tell distinctive marks of pedophile for a child, so he learns
to recognize the danger of pedophile and avoid the company of pedophiles.
If you want to protect your child about traumas and dare not to tell him
or her about pedophilia, so he can't recognize and take cover and
protect himself from pedophilia and can be caught as a victim of
pedophile. Telling the facts about pedophilia your child can trust you
and other adults and learn to recognize the danger of pedophilia.
Very often pedophiles seek professions that deal with children and young
people. Pedophiles can be a very active on children and youth companies
and organizations. Many pedophiles act as anybody normal adult and
therefore, it is very difficult to recognize a pedophile. Pedophiles try
in every way to hide their pedophilic tendency. In addition, for this
reason identification of pedophile is very difficult. Therefore, it is
very important to tell the children about pedophilia, because the
children are in many cases, the only ones who can recognize a pedophile.
When a pedophile tries to take a sexual contact to a child, so
enlightened and well informed child can recognize a pedophile and avoid
a role as a pedophile's victim. For this reason, it is very important
that to the children have been told about pedophilia, because it
prevents them be victims of a pedophile.
Wrong guilt of a pedophile's victims
Little child or young person who has been a victim of a pedophile feels
very often agonizing guilt in his heart, for the reason of sexual abuse.
One thing that has not been enough discussed is victim's sexual
satisfaction by practicing of pedophilia.
When I have met pedophile's victims, so some of them say that they are
ashamed and feel a lot of guilt because of pedophilia. They have not
dared to speak about their shame and guilt. Some pedophiles act in
a such way that they cause sexual pleasure to a victim, for example,
rubbing genitals. In this way, they manipulate that a victim thinks that
he/she is a participant in a pedophilic act. Many pedophiles' victims go
through a lot of shame and guilt, because a pedophile has brought a
sexual pleasure to them.
The shame and guilt of a child or young person is vain, because certain
activity on area of genitals produces sexual pleasure. Pedophilia is a
crime and sin against a child, and victim's sexual pleasure (if it
has happened) doesn't mean that he/she has co-operated with a
pedophile to sexual activity. Pedophilia is a crime of manipulation to
sexual act, forcing to sexual act, threatening and intimidation, and
that child or young person is a victim of the sex crime (pedophilia). Of
course, the majority of pedophilia experiences are agonizing, but in
some cases a victim can undergo emotions of sexual pleasure.
Sexual pleasure of a victim is not shameful and a thing that doesn't
need feel guilt, because adult pedophile has manipulated that a child
has undergone feeling of sexual pleasure. If you are in the situation,
in which you feel guilt and shame for sexual pleasure as a victim of
pedophile, so don't be on shame and guilt yourself, but expose a
pedophile. Talk to your parents, relatives, officials, police, teachers
or child welfare officials. It is very important that you tell the
matter to some adult who can pass on your matter forward that a
pedophile can get caught and sentenced for a sex crime. In every case, a
victim must expose a pedophile and do not be afraid pedophile's threats.
If father or stepfather has sexually abused his child, so also in this
kind of case, the matter must expose, although first to mother. As a
victim of pedophilia or incest very often happens that a child loses his
trust to adults, and he can't tell or expose this matter. Very often
behind obmutescence is a strong shame of emotion preventing that a child
can't tell or expose a pedophile.
If you are a victim of pedophilia or incest, so you have nothing to
shame, because you are a victim of the serious sex crimes. It is
absolutely important that you tell your story and expose a pedophile or
person who has practiced incest toward you. In the cases where the
abuser is own father or mother telling of the matter raise threshold for
a very high. However, also in this kind of case is absolutely important
that you expose the abuser.
A pedophile tries to hide his pedophilic actions. A pedophile, for
example, can blame a child by saying that a child is a participant to
sexual act. Don't believe pedophile's speech, but expose him as soon as
you understand that you are a victim of a pedophilia sex crime. Society
and justice department shall condemn a pedophile for a sex crime to jail.
Don't afraid, because a pedophile can't harm you or your family. It is
absolutely important that you expose pedophilic abuser or someone who
has shown clear attentions of pedophilic actions.
Pedophilia is a very wide-range problem
Pedophilia is a very wide-range problem, which is not only the problem
of religious sects and communities, but pedophilia is the more common
and wider problem among nonreligious people as in religious groups.
Pedophilia is an aggravating and horrific crime. The root of pedophilia
is in the nature on sinner man who is rebellion against God. Many
pedophiles have undergone sexual abusing in their childhood, and
therefore, they practice pedophilia. A pedophile can also undergo
inability practicing sex with adult person and for this reason he
practices pedophilia. Sexuality has perverted on pedophiles, and he
tries to get sexual contacts for unnatural objects and choose a child as
his object of sexual lust.
Emotional and mental incompleteness can predispose practicing of
pedophilia. In some cases, individuals who suffer emotional and mental
incompleteness have practiced pedophilia. When an adult person hasn't
reached maturity into health adulthood, so in some cases they can aim
their sexual needs towards children, because they don't get along with
adults. However, we can't generalize, because all emotional and mental
incompleteness individuals do not practice pedophilia.
People who are under sex addictions can come pedophiles, because they
very often seek more and more stimulus to their sex addictions. An
individual who suffers about sex addiction generally does not content
anything, but seeks more vicious and pervert ways to carry out his
sexuality. For this reason, he can drift for a pedophile. Pedophilia
often begins as voyeurism.
Some pedophiles feel great shame and anger toward themselves, because
they are pedophiles. It is a very big threshold for a pedophile to seek
out the help, because a pedophilia is so big and aggravating crime. If
you recognize that you need help for pedophilia feeling shame and anger
toward you, so go and find help for yourself. Don't care about judgement
of society, but think about it that by getting help you can heal from
pedophilia and spare deep wounds and traumas of many children.
If you feel shame and anger toward you for pedophilia, so it is a sign
understanding that you are doing wrong things. You still can be changed
and healed. Do not spoil the life of many children, let them have a
chance to live normal life and let them have the opportunity to develop
and grow in a health way.
If you are a pedophile, you still have a chance to be healed. Go and
find out remedy, go and get some help for yourself. The best way to be
healed is to confess a pedophilia as a sin to God and believe on the
Lord Jesus. Health and Biblical faith heal you from pedophilia and lead
you to health and normal sexuality.
Majority of pedophiles are men
Majority of sexual crimes have made by men.
(Essay: Sexual Offending Against Children publishers:
Tony Morrison, Marcus Erooga and Richard C. Beckett) American
Professional Society on the Abuse of Children organization
reports that most of the sexual crimes have made by men.
Remarkable amount of pedophiles victims are boys. Ratio is 2-4 girls
and 1 boy. According to report all cases concerning abusing of boys
are not reported and pedophilia cases aimed to boys are more common
than earlier reports has uncovered. Fifteen years ago believed that
sexual abuse ratio was 9:1 aimed more for girls than boys. In new
studies, the ratio is remarkably narrowed. Some of the researchers
believe that boys are abused equal common as girls. (Bill
Watkins and Arnon Bentovim, "The Sexual Abuse of Male Children and
Adolescents: A Review of Current Research," Journal of Child
Psychiatry 33 (1992); in Byrgen Finkelman, Sexual Abuse (New York:
Garland Publishing, 1995), p. 300.) (Kee MacFarlane, et al.,
Sexual Abuse of Young Children: Evaluation and Treatment (New York:
The Guilford Press, 1986), p. 9.)
The men make almost all sex crimes against children. In the prisons
of England and Wales are 3000 men convicted for sex crimes against
children. Comparable number of women is only 12. (Dawn Fisher, "Adult Sex Offenders: Who are They? Why and How
Do They Do It?" in Tony Morrison et al., eds., Sexual Offending
Against Children (London: Routledge, 1994), p. 11.)
Practicing of pedophilia is more common among men than women. Men
that aim their pedophilic acts towards girls is the indication of
sexual disorder, in which can be many reasons and every case is
individual. One reason can be that many men have difficulties to tie
relationship with opposite adult gender. This leads getting sexual
contact with girl, because the girl can't behave like an adult, so a
pedophile is capable of manipulate a child into sexual interaction (intercourse).
Ignorance and lack of communination with an adult can lead perverted
sexuality and pedophilia.
Among heterosexual men reasons of sexual abuse for girls arise from
many factors. In all cases is the question about twisted and perverted
practice of sexuality. One reason can be incompetence to tie
relationship with adult women; in some cases, a man who doesn't g
attention of an adult woman can drift into pedophilia practicing sex
with girl. Incompetence by sexual intercourse with an adult woman can
lead a man into pedophilia, in which a man wants to control, dominate
and submit a child with sexual intercourse.
If some man has features, which make him repulsive and disgusting in the
sight of women, so a man is in very great danger to be a pedophile who
sexually abuse girls.
In the background of pedophilia can be childhood traumas and very
often a pedophile has been in his childhood a victim as a pedophile.
One reason must be mentioned, which is a sin where evil spirits of
darkness are tempting with the different kind of stimulus and
experiences into the pedophilia.
Psychiatry, psychology and sex therapy does not recognize the evil
spirit connection of pedophilia, but it is the real power affecting
on pedophilia action.
My intention is not to provoke or arise out of discrimination
against homosexuals, but bring forth real facts about studies and
researchers indicating that pedophilia is more common among
homosexuals as heterosexuals. This subject is very sensitive and my
intention is not to offend, insult or agitate and provoke anyone
against homosexuals. Into question is not hate speech, but the
matter that has been openly and publicly studied. The Council of
Europe's Committee of Ministers define hate speech as follows:
The term “hate speech” shall be understood as covering all forms of
expression which spread, incite, promote or justify racial hatred,
xenophobia, antiSemitism or other forms of hatred based on
intolerance, including: intolerance expressed by aggressive
nationalism and ethnocentrism, discrimination and hostility against
minorities, migrants and people of immigrant origin.
Saying the truth for it that what connections have been researched
between homosexuals, and heterosexuals is not hate speech, but
bringing forth the facts of studies and researchers.
Homosexuals are percentage less than heterosexuals, but when
pedophilia vases are proportioned by percentage, so homosexuals
practice pedophilia more common as heterosexuals. This doesn't mean
that all homosexuals are pedophiles, but that pedophilia is more
common among homosexuals than heterosexuals.
Among some homosexual activists accepting of pedophilia is open, and
they even want to allow children and young people to express their
sexuality freely. Their goal is extreme dangerous wish and desire
and for this reason I handle widely connections of homosexuality to
pedophilia.
Numbers of heterosexuals are more than homosexuals; the ratio is 21
to 1. In the light of ratio homosexual pedophiles make about the
third of all sex crimes aimed to children. There are remarkable
amount cases of sex crimes against children done by homosexual
pedophiles.
Epidemiological evidence points out that only 2-4% of men have
sexual attraction to other men. 25-40% of men who have sexual
attraction feel it toward boys. Thereby homosexual men have 6-20
times more tendencies to pedophilia than heterosexual men. (Blanchard et al., "Fraternal
Birth Order and Sexual Orientation in Pedophiles," Archives of
Sexual Behavior 29 (2000):464.)
Archives of Sexual Behavior research has observed very clear
difference between homosexual men and heterosexual men who sexually
abuse children. In the research were 260 pedophiles in three groups;
152 heterosexual pedophiles who abused girls, 65 homosexual
pedophiles who abused boys and 43 bisexual pedophiles who abused
boys and girls. (Ray
Blanchard, et al., "Fraternal Birth Order and Sexual Orientation in
Pedophiles," Archives of Sexual Behavior 29 (2000): 471.)
When we take into account homosexuals more lesser amount of the
population, so among homosexuals pedophilia against boys is more
common than among heterosexuals.
U.S. justice department (U.S. Bureau of Justice - Bureau of
Justice Statistics) has made 2000 very wide research about
sexual violence. The base of research was database years 1991-1996
from twelfth states (Alabama, Colorado, Idaho, Illinois, Iowa,
Massachusetts, Michigan, North Dakota, South Carolina, Utah, Vermont
and Virginia). States were part as NCVS-research
(National Crime Victimization Survey). The name of research
was
"Sexual Assault of Young Children as
Reported to Law Enforcement: Victim, Incident and Offender
Characteristics" and Dr. Howard Snyder was as the leader of
research. The research type distribution consisted of
violent rape, violent sodomy, sexual violent with an object and
violent caress. According to research sexual abuse cases of children
occurred 25% by homosexuals and 75& by heterosexuals. Between years
1991-1996 proportions of homosexuals were in U.S. 2-3% from the
population. When we count average from the population between
homosexuals and heterosexuals, so statistical fact according to this
research is that for a homosexual people probably come ten times
more often a pedophile than from a heterosexual person. Steve
Baldwin made study in year 2002 published by
Regent University
Law Review. According to his research, a pedophilia is more common among
homosexuals than heterosexuals. The purpose of his research was to
expose the dark side of homosexual culture. Research ended up to the
result that molestation and abusing of the children appears remarkable
more among homosexuals than heterosexuals, when database sampling was
statistics per person from the population.
Steve Baldwin brought forth in his article ("Child Molestation
and the Homosexual Movement"), that evidence support perception;
that homosexuality's sexual abnormality contains disorders, which has
horrible consequences to our society. Baldwin stated that it was very
difficult to express the dark side of gay culture having not displayed
as rude or harsh. Baldwin is very concerned from this matter, and he
thinks that homosexual behaviour threatens foundations of western
civilization, which is a family.
Homosexual communities and the part of the media have mocked Baldwin,
because of his statements. Baldwin stands for back of his words bringing
out that intentions of homosexual activists are attacking against
children, because of gays' sexual pleasures and for the reason to widen
and increase of homosexual movement. Dr. Judith Reisman (Institute
for Media Education) confirms Baldwin's conceptions on her study.
According to study of Reisman (cited psychologist Eugene Abel)
sexual abuse toward young boys appears on homosexuals at least five
times more often as compared to on sexual abuse to girls. Carole
Jenny's study claim that only two from 269 children sexual abusers can
be identified as homosexual or lesbian. ("Are
Children at Risk for Sexual Abuse by Homosexuals?" Pediatrics 94 (July
1994): 41-44.) Jenny's
study used atypical research technique. Jenny's study didn't interview
children abusers. Researchers appealed to their own opinions and database
from the information of victims, not abusers. They didn't ask behaviour
of sexual abusers. If and when they have beforehand decided that
pedophiles who abuse boys aren't homosexuals, so they can make the
conclusion that some of them are married, or they have a girlfriend.
However, research pointed out that 22% for pedophiles molested and
abused same gender. It is an indication for very clear homosexual
pedophilia.
Homosexuals very often deny very close connection between homosexuality
and pedophilia. Dr. Gregory M. Herek is one of which deny these
connections. Herek is openly and publicly a gay. Herek is also a
psychologist. Herek's statements are matters that speak for own agenda,
because he is a gay, so he denies very close connection of homosexuality
and pedophilia. Many nonaligned and valid researches clearly have shown
that homosexuality and pedophilia have very close connection between
each other.
Definition of pedophile homosexual
Homosexual activists say that men who sexually abuse boys can't hold
as homosexuals. Their definition is that homosexual tendency is such
a kind of in which an adult man feel attraction toward another adult
man. According to homosexual activists, a man who practices a
pedophilia toward boys is not a homosexual. Some homosexuals say
that a man can't define as homosexual if he has been married with a
woman or practiced sex with a woman.
Definition of homosexual pedophile does not close one another,
because they define two sexual attraction, in which a man feels
attraction with same gender who is a boy. Definition of a homosexual
is a person who feels sexual attraction in same gender as he is, in
other words, where a man feels sexual attraction to another man.
An adult male pedophile who feels sexual attraction to the boy is
both a homosexual and pedophile, because he feels sexual attraction
toward same gender and toward a boy. This means that all men who
sexually abuse boys are homosexuals.
Psychiatrist Richard von Krafft-Ebing (1940-1902) was a pioneer of
study and research about abnormal sexuality who, firstly, introduced
the concept of homosexual pedophile. Pedophiles use the same concept
in their bulletins.
Risk of repeat and covering action
International Journal of Offender Therapy and Comparative
Criminology report says that victims of pedophiles were for them
very often strange and unknown. Some homosexual pedophiles have also
other sexual perversions, and they have been convicted more often
about earlier sex crimes than others. According to some research
homosexual pedophiles have greater risk to repeat sex crime than
those pedophiles who abused girls. Homosexual pedophiles risk of
repeat a sex crime was double compared to pedophiles who abused
girls. (James Bickley and Anthony R.
Beech, "Classifying Child Abusers: Its Relevance to Theory and
Clinical Practice," International Journal of Offender Therapy and
Comparative Criminology 45 2001)
Gay people and homosexual pedophiles have many kinds of tendencies in
the area of sexuality, which are totally in conflict for normal
sexuality. These several tendencies also lead many homosexuals as
pedophiles, in which as the object of sexual attraction is a boy or
young boy lover. In many cases' also abundant selection of sexual
behaviour can be the attempt to cover and hide tendency of pedophilia.
Researchers have known a long time that pedophiles have abundant
selection of sexual behaviour as intention to draw attention away from
their pedophilic tendency.
International Journal of Offender Therapy and Comparative
Criminology study about sexual criminals says that children sexual
abusers very often can act unnoticed, because you can't set them a
certain stereotype. (Krisin A. Danni, et al., "An Analysis of Predicators
of Child Sex Offender Types Using Presentence Investigation Reports,"
International Journal of Offender Therapy and Comparative Criminology 44
2000) Gay
culture and pedophilia David
Thorstad is political activist and historian of the gay rights movement,
and he claims that homosexuality and pedophilia have natural and
undisputable connection. Thorstad has written in his book
(David Thorstad,
"Man/Boy Love and the American Gay Movement," Journal of Homosexuality
20 (1990): p.253), that in the beginning of gay movement boy lovers
were part of the movement, and their presence tolerated. In the
gay movement, first edition of news article 1979 was the statement about
love between man and boy, which showed that the final goal of gay
liberation is achievement that allows all people sexual freedom,
including to children and young people freedom to express their
sexuality. David
Thorstad cited Jim Kepner (Curator of the International Gay and
Lesbian Archives in Los Angeles): A point
I've been trying to make is that if we reject the boylovers in our midst
today we'd better stop waving the banner of the Ancient Greeks, of
Michelangelo, Leonardo da Vinci, Oscar Wilde, Walt Whitman, Horatio
Alger, and Shakespeare. We'd better stop claiming them as part of our
heritage unless we are broadening our concept of what it means to be gay
today. (David
Thorstad, "Man/Boy Love and the American Gay Movement," Journal of
Homosexuality 20 (1990): p.266)
In 1985 the North American Man-Boy Love Association (NAMBLA),
which openly advocates "adult-child sex," was admitted as a member in
New York's council of Lesbian and Gay Organizations as well as the
International Gay Association--now the International Lesbian and Gay
Association (ILGA). In the mid-1990's ILGA's association with NAMBLA and
other pedophile groups cost the organization it's status as a
Non-Governmental Organization in the United Nations.
(George Archibald, "U.N. Group Keeps Ban on Gay Lobby," Washington
Times May 1, 2002)
Organizations that demand legalizing of pedophilia are totally blind for
health and normal sex behaviour and moral. When a man has chosen
abnormal sexuality, so it very easily twisted more and more. The danger
example is demand to legalize pedophilia.
Pedophilia and gay literature
The late "beat" poet Allen Ginsberg has said that there is seamless
connection between homosexuality and pedophilia. Biographer Raymond-Jean
Frontain has written about Ginsberg's participation with the
controversial North American Man/Boy Love Association" and that his
works have patterned of references to anal intercourse and to pederasty. (Raymond-Jean Frontain, "The Works of Allen
Ginsberg," Journal of Homosexuality 34 (1997): 109.) Ginsberg
was one of the first of homosexual writers who cater to the fascination
with pedophilia in the gay community. Mary Eberstadt, writing in the
Weekly Standard, has documented how the taboo against sex with children
continues to erode. Revealingly, the examples she provides of pedophilia
in current literature come from gay fiction. (Mary Eberstadt, "'Pedophilia
Chic' Reconsidered" The Weekly Standard January 8, 2001) Eberstadt
cites the Village Voice, which says that "Gay fiction is rich with
idyllic accounts of 'intergenerational relationships,' as such affairs
are respectfully called these days. (Mary Eberstadt, "'Pedophilia
Chic' Reconsidered" The Weekly Standard (January 8, 2001 p.21) Eberstad
lists numerous examples of pedophilia-themed gay fiction which appear in
"mainstream" homosexual anthologies. The Gay Canon: Great Books Every
Gay Man Should Read features novels containing scenes of man-boy sex.
Paedophilia: The Radical Case book tells very detailed information that
how you can get very close intimate relationship with boys. (Tom
O'Carroll, Paedophilia: The Radical Case (Boston:Alyson Publications,
1982)
Some homosexual observers have sincerely admitted that an inordinate
fascination with pedophilia exists within the gay community. Lesbian
columnist Paula Martinac, writing in the homosexual newspaper Washington
Blade, states:
Some gay men still maintain that an adult who has same-sex relations
with someone under the legal age of consent is on some level doing the
kid a favor. . . . Adult-youth sex is viewed as an important aspect of
gay culture. . . . . This romanticized version of adult-youth sexual
relations has been a staple of gay literature
Among gay movement affect fictions that idolize and promote pedophilia.
This is arrogant and brazen indication showing how gay movement tries to
manipulate and change health sexual concepts to wrong direction.
Gay movements and pedophilia
One of the widest U.S. gay website
(www.qrd.org), Queer Resource Directory
links almost every American homosexual group and association, including
NAMBLA
(North American Man-Boy
Love Association) and also other gay communities, which have
concentrated their sexual attraction children and young people.
Remarkable is that
Queer
Resource Directory site is one of the widest gay websites in U.S.
Linking to several gay movement pedophilia sites is indication that
among homosexuals pedophilia is widely supported. This proves that
homosexuality has very close connection to pedophilia.
Many leader characters and dignitaries of U.S. gay movement supports
NAMBLA and its goals. Gay authors and leaders as
Allen Ginsberg, Gayle Rubin, Larry Kramer (founder ACT-UP),
Pat Califia, Jane Rule, Michael Kearns and Michel Foucault have written
favorably about NAMBLA, and sexual relationship between man and boy.
Harry Hay is the important character in U.S. gay movement, and he
invited 1993 to march with him in the parade on Washington".
Hay marched 1986 in Los Angeles gay parade wearing a shirt in which was
text: "NAMBLA walks with me."
Leading mainstream homosexual newspapers and magazines such as the
Advocate,
Edge, Metroline, The Guide and The San Francisco Sentinel have published
articles and columns and have accepted NAMBLA and sex with the children
and young people.
The editor of The Guide, Ed Hougen, stated in an interview with Lambda
Report, "I believe they (NAMBLA) are generally interested in the
right of young people to be sexual . . . . I am glad there is a group
like NAMBLA that is willing to be courageous." The San Francisco
Sentinel was more blunt: "NAMBLA’s position on sex is not unreasonable,
just unpopular. When a 14 year old gay boy approaches a man for sex,
it’s because he wants sex with a man."
The purpose of this kind comment is tried to make legal sexual
relationship between a man and a boy. The tactic is appealing to the
emotions; if a boy wants.
NAMBLA's goal is legalizing sex between a man and a boy. Ed Hougen knows
this, so he supports sexual relationship between a man and a boy.
Gay movement tries to change concepts of the people by continual emotion
conditioning. This means that when emotions of the people have been
changed positive to homosexuyality, so the people do not need
justification or the facts, because his positive emotion is truth for
him even if it is concflict with the truth. Planned manipulation abuse
always emotions of the people. If you can win peoples' emotions to serve
your agenda, so any facts and matters can't influence on the mind of the
people, because he is led by emotions, not by the rational sense.
The purpose of gay movement is removing the conflicts and abnormality of
homosexuality in a way that propagandistic manipulation annuls all
negative comprehensions about homosexuality. In this way gay movement
tries to mix up all things and manipulative condition of the matters at
least lead people to feel positive feelings for homosexuality.
The goal of gay movement becomes filled when emotions among the people
have been led in order to condition, in which the people see homosexuals
as the victims. As the consequence of this gay movement obtains the goal,
in which the people feel hate and negative emotions toward those who say
that homosexuality is a sin or abnormal. The final goal is total
eliminating of opponents. Gay movement uses the same tactic advocating
legalizing the sex between an adult and a child. When the truth is
twisted and peoples' emotions have accepted abnormality, so they can't
separate what is right and wrong, because his emotion is the meter of
justice, even it would be wrong.
Gay movement's conquest of the world has begun from USA and from there
its goals has reached all over the world. In the beginning America's
people resisted gay movement, but little by little people accepted it
and nowadays homosexuality is accepted almost everywhere in the world.
Among America's homosexuals accepting of pedophilia is very wide-range
and their goal is made from it acceptable world widely. 1950-60's in
America the homosexuality was held as abnormal and people couldn't think
that it would become acceptable some day. However, sin of homosexuality
is accepted nowadays. Gay movement's next goal is legalizing the sex
between a man and a boy. These demands shall spread world widely and
everywhere sexual moral is decreasing, so it would be only the matter of
time when this sex sin between a man and a boy will be legalized.
Consequences of pedophilic homosexuality One very
sad and tragic feature of homosexual pedophilia is that a man who
sexually abuses a boy very often leads his victim into homosexuality and
pedophilia. Evidence shows that majority of homosexuals and pedophiles
have experienced sexual abuse during their childhood. One very
remarkable find in the research was that 46% gay men and 22& lesbian
women reported to experience sexual abuse by the same-gender adult
during their childhood. As the contrast only 7% heterosexual men and 1%
heterosexual women reported experienced sexual abuse by the same-gender
adult during their childhood.
(Marie, E. Tomeo
et al., "Comparative Data of Childhood and Adolescence Molestation in
Heterosexual and Homosexual Persons," Archives of Sexual Behavior 30
2001) The
research and publication of
Journal
of the American Medical Association about 279 homosexual men and
bisexual men (who have AIDS) and their comparison group brought forth
that over half of AIDS-group and control group told that had been
intercourse action with a man before age of 16 and about 20% had been at
the age of 9 and also under the age of 9.
(Harry W. Haverkos, et al., "The Initiation of Male
Homosexual Behavior," The Journal of the American Medical Association
262 July 28, 1989): 501) David
Finkelhor is well known researcher of children sexual abuse, who has
stated in his studies that the boys who had been as the victims of
sexual abuse by a man had been as adults four times more often in gay
relationships than the boys who had not been sexually abused during
their childhood. Moreover, young boys have told that reason of their
homosexuality is because spme man sexuall abused them during their
childhood.
(Watkins and Bentovim, s. 316)
International Journal of Offender Therapy and Comparative Criminology
has published the research, which say that group of pedophiles examined
40% told that they had been the victim of sexual abuse many times before
the age 14 and 28% told that had been as a victim sometimes.
(Gary A.
Sawle, Jon Kear-Colwell, "Adult Attachment Style and Pedophilia: A
Developmental Perspective," International Journal of Offender Therapy
and Comparative Criminology 45 February 2001) America's
National Institute of Justice records that a child who has experienced
sexual abuse during his childhood will come as adult sex criminal 4,7
times more often than a person who hasn't experienced sexual abuse in
his childhood.
(Cathy Spatz Widom, "Victims
of Childhood Sexual Abuse - Later Criminal Consequences," Victims of
Childhood Sexual Abuse Series:NIJ Research in Brief, March 1995) Child
Abuse and Neglect publication says that 59% about male sex criminals
experienced sexual abuse during their childhood.
( Elliott, p. 582) Journal
of Child Psychiatry says that boys who have experienced sexual abuse
have the tendency to repeat their own experience thus that from him
comes sexual abuser. (Watkins, p. 319.) According to Watkins,
several studies confirm that 19-16% male sexual abusers have experienced
sexual abuse during their childhood.
Sexual molestation and abusing is like heritage that some
homosexuals (not all) wanted to legalize accepting the sex
between an adult and a child. Too many pedophile's victim have been
driven for a pedophile when he has come adult. Exposing the truth, for
instance, homosexual pedophilia, we can cut the vicious circle of
pedophilia that some young people can avoid being caught as a victim of
pedophile and also to cut development of victim ending up to pedophile
when he is adult. Our duty and task are to protect our children from
evil sin of pedophilia.
The Bible and pedophilia Very
often I hear a false claim that the Bible doesn't condemn the pedophilia.
Mostly, behind this false claim is gay activists that wanted to legalize
the sex between a man and a boy. In the Bible is mention about
pedophilia, in which it is condemned as sin whose doers shall not
inherit the kingdom of God. English
Bible versions from this matter don't bring forth the right meaning,
because English versions have not translated word correspond to meaning
of original language (Greek). When we study 1 Cor 6:9 in the light of
Greek language, so we find out that the Bible condemns the pedophilia.
1
Cor 6: 1 Cor 6:9
in the end of verse is two Greek wirds that are
(malakos and arsenokoites). Malakos means soft, effeminate,
of a catamite,
of a boy kept for homosexual relations with a man, of a male who
submits his body to unnatural lewdness, of a male prostitute.
Arsenokoites means one one who lies with a male as with a female,
sodomite, homosexual. 1 Cor 6:9
say that the sex (pedophilia) between a man and a boy,
homosexuality and male prostitution are sins whose doers shall not
inherit the kingdom of God. The Bible condemns the pedophilia as sin of
the death.
Summary about homosexual pedophilia Results of researches point out indisputably that homosexual tendency and pedophilia are
remarkable connection with one another. This doesn't mean that every homosexual
are pedophiles, but that remarkable amount of them feels sexual attraction
toward children and underage young people. According to
researches homosexual pedophiles have various sexual tendencies as the purpose
to draw away attention from their pedophilia tendency. Question is covering and
hiding action as the purpose to hide the real sexual tendency. Thus,
identification of pedophile is more difficult. If some person has exceptional
sexual tendencies, so he can try to hide his attraction to pedophilia. This
information can help for recognizing of pedophile and prevent to child being
caught as a victim of pedophile. Among gay
movement, pedophilia is a very dangerous phenomenon, because some (not all)
gay activists try to legalize the sex between a man and a boy. Abundant
pedophilic literature in the midst of gay movement causes more sexual corruption
and homosexual pedophilia. It would be absolutely important that societies would
deny pedophilic literature by the laws. Some gay
activists appeal for adult-child sex that it was very common and accepted during
Antiquity Greek. This kind of argumentation is not acceptable, in fact, part of
Greeks didn't accept pedophilia. Adult-child sex is unnatural and abnormal, in
which an adult selfish way fulfil his distorted and perverted sexuality.
According to teaching of the Bible pedophilia is a sin that requires repentance.
Adult pedophile ruthlessly sexually abuses a child, in which a child is an
object of adult sex perversion. A child is like a sex toy of an adult where an
adult abuse selfish a child to achieve perverted, crooked and corrupted sexual
pleasure. In homosexuality
can be seen a very selfish agenda, in which they try to make heterosexuals to
participate in homosexual action and make them as homosexuals. Homosexual
pedophile acts in the same way, because the remarkable amount of pedophiles'
victims end up to homosexuality, and some of them comes pedophiles. According to
researches remarkable amount of individuals who had been victims of pedophile
during their childhood end up to sex crimes when they have grown as adults. Preceding facts
are very worrying and alarming phenomenons. For this reason society must do all
that pedophilia must wipe out from the society. We must have courage openly and
publicly also bring forth very close connection of homosexuality and pedophilia.
This doesn't mean a label that all homosexuals are pedophiles, but a fact that
among homosexuality, the pedophilia is more common than among heterosexuals. Of
course, we must be very tight with all pedophilia also heterosexual pedophilia,
but for homosexuality, it must be very tight, because in the midst of gay
movement are people who want to legalize adult-child sex. part of gay
movement and media don't believe that homosexuality and pedophilia have very
close connerction. Therefore, they accuse that people who don't accept
homosexuality and say that homosexuality, and pedophilia has very close
connection are intolerant. Very clear facts and studies have shown close
connection of homosexuality and pedophilia, and for this reason is very
important to bring it forth. Worrying and
alarming is that societies accept homosexuality. Accepting homosexuality
increase pedophilia, as we have seen so many studies show that pedophilia has
very close connection to homosexuality. Development is alarming, because wrong
tolerance knocks down a health moral and in the long run contaminates health
moral concept and changes it to pervert direction. Wrong tolerance shall also
increase sufferings of the children by sexual abuse. It is very
unfortunately that some heterosexual individuals condemn all information about
close connection of homosexuality and pedophilia. Some of them deny all trustful
studies from this topic. For the reason, the iniquity of sins is increasing in
the end times in the world according to the prophecies of the word of God (Bible). Therefore,
the people do not discern wrong things and sins. The phenomenon of the last days
is manipulation and brainwash to sins why they support all pervert sins. For
this reason, they don't see that close connection of homosexuality and
pedophilia is the fact. According to the
Bible homosexuality and pedophilia are sins that require repentance. The Lord
Jesus can change every pedophile and turn their sexuality as normal (permanent
relationship between a man and a woman). The gospel about the Lord Jesus
can do miracles, when a man confesses his sins, repent and believe on the Lord
Jesus. If you are a pedophile who read this writing; God can forgive you and He
can heal your mind and sexuality as normal. The Lord Jesus wants to save you and
give eternal life.
Pedophilia in the Roman Catholic Church
Religious communities and pedophilia
The real faith don't practice pedophilia
Pedophile manipulates and controls a child
Wrong guilt of a pedophile's victims
Pedophilia is a very wide-range problem
Majority of pedophiles are men
Homosexuality and pedophilia
Islam and pedophilia
Aspiration expansion of pedophilia
Healing of the victim
9 ¶ Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the
kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor
adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,
10 Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor
extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.
9 ¶ Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom
of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor
adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,
10 Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor
extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.
The Quran (Koran) accepts adult-child sex. My intention is not to provoke or arise out of discrimination against Muslims, but bring forth real facts indicating that Koran and Muslimism accept pedophilia. This subject is very sensitive and my intention is not to offend, insult or agitate and provoke anyone against Muslims. Into question is not hate speech, but the matter that has been openly and publicly studied. The Council of Europe's Committee of Ministers define hate speech as follows: The term “hate speech” shall be understood as covering all forms of expression which spread, incite, promote or justify racial hatred, xenophobia, antiSemitism or other forms of hatred based on intolerance, including: intolerance expressed by aggressive nationalism and ethnocentrism, discrimination and hostility against minorities, migrants and people of immigrant origin.
Saying the truth for it that what Koran and Muslims teach is not hate speech, but bringing forth the facts.
Quran 65:
2 thus when they fulfill their term appointed, either take them back
on equitable terms or part with them on equitable terms; and take for
witness two persons from among you, endued with justice, and establish
the evidence as before Allah. such is the admonition given to him who
believes in Allah and the last day. and for those who fear Allah, he
ever prepares a way out,
3 and he provides for him from sources he never could imagine. and if
anyone puts his trust in Allah, sufficient is Allah for him. for Allah
will surely accomplish his purpose: verily, for all things has Allah
appointed a due proportion.
4 such of your women as have passed the age of monthly courses, for them
the prescribed period, if ye have any doubts, is three months, and for
those who have no courses it is the same: for those who carry life
within their wombs, their period is until they deliver their burdens:
and for those who fear Allah, he will make their path easy.
In verse four is teaching about wives whose menstruation has not yet begun. The girls have menstruation generally about the age of 10-16. According to Quran (Koran) Muslim men can have very young wives whose menstruation has not yet begun. Quran allows adult-child sex.
The prophet Muhammad married girl named Aisha when she was six years old. The prophet Muhammad had intercourse (sex) with Aisha when she was nine years old. Some Muslims (not all) follow the example of Muhammad and take very young girls to their wives.
Muslims' own sources hadiths prove that Muhammad had sexual relationship with little girl:
Sahih
Muslim: Book 008, Number 3309:
'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported: Allah's Messenger (may
peace be upon him) married me when I was six years old, and I was
admitted to his house at the age of nine.
http://www.usc.edu/org/cmje/religious-texts/hadith/muslim/008-smt.php
Sahih
Bukhari: Volume 7, Book 62, Number 64:
Narrated 'Aisha: that the Prophet married her when she was six years
old and he consummated his marriage when she was nine years old, and
then she remained with him for nine years (i.e., till his death).
http://www.usc.edu/org/cmje/religious-texts/hadith/bukhari/062-sbt.php
Sahih
Bukhari: Volume 7, Book 62, Number 65:
Narrated 'Aisha: that the Prophet married her when she was six years
old and he consummated his marriage when she was nine years old. Hisham
said: I have been informed that 'Aisha remained with the Prophet for
nine years (i.e. till his death)." what you know of the Quran (by heart)'
http://www.usc.edu/org/cmje/religious-texts/hadith/bukhari/062-sbt.php
Sahih
Bukhari: Volume 7, Book 62, Number 88:
Narrated 'Ursa: The Prophet wrote the (marriage contract) with 'Aisha
while she was six years old and consummated his marriage with her while
she was nine years old and she remained with him for nine years (i.e.
till his death).
http://www.usc.edu/org/cmje/religious-texts/hadith/bukhari/062-sbt.php
Modern Islam's scholars say that Quran 65:4 teaches that Muslim men can have a girl as a wife. Sayyid Abul Ala Maududi (d. 1979) in Tafhim al Quran (Commentary on the Quran) interprets verse 65:4 as:
And if you are in doubt about those of your women who have despaired of menstruation, (you should know that) their waiting period is three months, and the same applies to those who have not menstruated as yet. They may not have menstruated as yet either because of young age, or delayed menstrual discharge as it happens in the case of some women, or because of no discharge at all throughout life which, though rare, may also be the case. In any case, the waiting-period of such a woman is the same as of the woman, who has stopped menstruation that is three months from the time divorce was pronounced.
Here, one should bear in mind the fact that according to the explanations given in the Quran the question of the waiting period arises in respect of the women with whom marriage may have been consummated, for there is no waiting-period in case divorce is pronounced before the consummation of marriage. (Al-Ahzab: 49). Therefore, making mention of the waiting-period for the girls who have not yet menstruated, clearly proves that it is not only permissible to give away the girl in marriage at this age but it is also permissible for the husband to consummate marriage with her. Now, obviously no Muslim has the right to forbid a thing which the Quran has held as permissible.
Quran according to teaching of Islam allows pedophilia (adult-child sex). This doesn't mean that every Muslim accepts adult-child sex, but that Quran allows sex between an adult and a child.
Islam question & answer site: It was narrated from ‘Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) married her when she was six years old, he consummated the marriage with her when she was nine and she stayed with him for nine years. ... The fact that it is permissible to marry a young girl does not mean that it is permissible to have intercourse with her; rather that should not be done until she is able for it. For that reason the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) delayed the consummation of his marriage to ‘Aa’ishah. Al-Nawawi said: With regard to the wedding-party of a young married girl at the time of consummating the marriage, if the husband and the guardian of the girl agree upon something that will not cause harm to the young girl, then that may be done. If they disagree, then Ahmad and Abu ‘Ubayd say that one a girl reaches the age of nine then the marriage may be consummated even without her consent, but that does not apply in the case of who is younger. Maalik, al-Shaafa’i and Abu Haneefah said: the marriage may be consummated when the girl is able for intercourse, which varies from one girl to another, so no age limit can be set. This is the correct view. There is nothing in the hadeeth of ‘Aa’ishah to set an age limit, or to forbid that in the case of a girl who is able for it before the age of nine, or to allow it in the case of a girl who is not able for it and has reached the age of nine. Al-Dawoodi said: ‘Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her) was reached physical maturity (at the time when her marriage was consummated).
On the faith of Islam consummation means that a Muslim man can practice sex with his wife. Religion of Islam teaches that a Muslim can have sex with his wife when she turns nine years.
Dr. Ahmad Al-Mu’bi Saudi marriage officiant: Marriage is actually two things: First, we are talking about the marriage contract itself. This is one thing, while consummating the marriage - having sex with the wife for the first time - is another thing. There is no minimal age for entering marriage. You can have a marriage contract even with a one-year-old girl, not to mention of nine, seven or eight. This is merely a contract (indicating) consent. The guardian in a such case must be the father, because the father's opinion is obligatory. Thus, the girl becomes a wife. But is the girl ready for sex yet or not? What is the appropriate age for having sex for the first time? This varies according to enviroment and traditions. In Yemen, girls were marrried off at nine, ten, eleven, eight or thirteen, while in other countries, they are married off at 16. Some countries have legislated laws forbidding having sex before the girl is eighteen. The prophet Muhammad is the model we follow. He took Aisha to be his wife when she was six, but he had sex with her only when she was nine. He consummated the marriage by having sex with her for the first time, when she was nine. We consider the prophet Muhammad to be our model. (LBC TV Libanon June 19 2008)
Muslims who believe in Quran hold the prophet Muhammad as their model and therefore, Islam that based on Quran teaches that a man can have a girl as the wife and with her can have sex for the first time when the girl is at nine. The practice of Islam about sex between a man and a girl fulfil the sign of pedophilia.
Aspiration expansion of pedophilia
Increasing of Islam in the western countries is worrying and alarming, because in the midst of Muslims are people who believe teaching of Quran about adult-child sex. Their purpose is spread their faith, including sex between a man and a girl. I remind that all Muslims don't accept adult-child sex. The goal of some gay activists (not all) is legalizing sex between a man and a boy, and they act very actively to fulfill their lust and desire.
Homosexuality and Islam are spreading very powerfully all over the world. Extreme Muslim and gay thoughts include accepting the sex between an adult and a child. This means that unfortunately supporting of pedophilia will increase also in the western countries. Wrong tolerance leads societies into the chaos, in which wrong values lead society all the time more perverted direction. Unfortunately, the fact is that in the future many people shall support the pedophilia. Such as other sinful things has occurred, so at least many people become a victim of pedophilia manipulation, and they accept it. Fortunately, there are also people who ever accept pervert pedophilia's sin.
The healing process of a pedophile's victims is often very long. Pedophilia and incest cause deep wounds in the heart of a child, and he carries those wounds also when he has become an adult. The mental health of many victims of pedophilia and incest have very badly suffered and traumatized because of sexual abuse. Victims' own sexuality is also totally lost and in some cases badly perverted.
Sexual abuse of children and young people is very serious crime, which offend, insult and break physical inviolability and their mind.
Biblical faith has healed many victims of pedophilia. I dare to claim that Biblical faith, believing on the Lord Jesus is the best way to get healed deep wounds of pedophilia.
Forgiveness of God in the heart of the people removes bitterness and heals the mind, emotions and sexuality of a pedophilia's victims.
In some religious circles, the victim of sexual abuse might press to forgiveness. This is wrong way and against teaching of the Bible. Forgiveness can't be sanction and not way to press the people, but forgiveness must come voluntarily from the heart.
In some religious circles, sexual abuse cases are dismissed very often in a way that when the abuser has apologized from a victim, so all is well. The Biblical forgiveness is genuine repentance, in which individual repents his sins and shall never repeat it. Asking of forgiveness without repentance and forsaken sin is not acceptable forgiveness.
Every kind of press actions and demand aiming for that a child forgives his abuser is wrong. It is obvious and clear that little child very often can't understand meaning of the forgiveness, and when he has grown up into adulthood, so he has ability and capacity to handle the thing and understand what is the real meaning of forgiveness.
Sexual abuser of children is a slave of sexual perversion, and it is very hard to him to get rid of this perversion. The only working solution in his position is Biblical faith, which guarantees that he shall get freedom from perverted sexuality and reaches normal and health sexuality.
In some religious circles have taught that confession is secret and by this way they force the victim to forgive for an abuser. This kind of activity is wrong, sinful, irresponsible and reprehensible. Purpose of forcing is very often that religious group wants to hide sexual abuse cases. Hiding of sins in the sinful act, because sins must always expose and repentance id required from sinning. Teaching that confession is secret and can't expose to anyone is the evil method as the purpose to hide sexual abuse cases. Protecting of the sexual abusers is the activity against teaching of the Bible. Protecting of the sexual abusers is involvement in a crime.
All acts have the consequences; thief is convicted from theft, even if someone forgives him. Furthermore, sexual abusers must judge and punish, even if someone forgives him. When a crime has occurred, so it must always handle according to criminal laws. On the case of sexual abuse, we can't dismiss it for forgiveness, because sexual abuse is a crime that must punish according to criminal law. Sexual abuser must understand that forgiveness do not remove consequences of his crime. For example, if someone kills another individual and relatives of killed individuals forgive for killer, so despite the forgiveness killer must suffer in the jail consequence of his crime.
God forgives if individual truly repent his sins and do not repeat it, but in wrong deeds is consequences in this world as the preceding example show us. We must also remember that if someone thinks that he can commit a crime and sin on the basis that God shall forgive when I ask forgiveness, so this kind of thinking does not work before God.
God forgives sins to him who repent his sins and don't want to repeat his sins. If you make sin on the basis that you think getting forgiveness only when you ask, so you have mistaken, because forgiveness of sins is making repentance and forsaken sins. You cannot have forgiveness is you knowingly and purposely want to abuse the forgiveness of God.
We must take very seriously the victim of pedophilia and incest, and we can blame him or be careless pain and sufferings that he has gone through, because of sexual abuse. Victim of sexual abuse need supporters who support and help him to heal. In the congregation of Jesus' disciples the Biblical support is very important. Victim can have help for healing by believing on the Lord Jesus.
If you are the victim of some religious group, so remember that genuine Jesus' disciple doesn't practice pedophilia, but someone religious and ungodly individual has sexually abused for you. Pedophilia is serious sin and crime before God. I understand if you are disappointed to God and believers, but you must understand that genuine Jesus' disciples don't practice evil and disgusting sin of pedophilia. The Lord Jesus wants to help and heal you. He loves and understands you and waits that you allow to let Jesus come to your heart to remedy and heal all that evil sin has broken.
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